For more than a decade, “Blue Bloods” has followed the Reagan family’s professional and personal lives as they serve and protect New York City. But while the show’s family dynamic is built on loyalty and love, the actors themselves have meaningful relationships outside their on-screen roles.

From long-term marriages to growing families and everything in between, here’s a closer look at the real-life loved ones of the “Blue Bloods” cast.

Tom Selleck – Jillie Mack

Selleck has been married to Jillie Mack for over three decades, and when he isn’t filming “Blue Bloods” in New York City, the two enjoy a quiet life together on their ranch in Ventura, California.

The veteran actor also has two children — Hannah, his daughter with Mack, and Kevin, his son from his first marriage to Jacqueline Ray.

Will Estes

While Estes’ character, Jamie Reagan, married his partner Eddie Janko on “Blue Bloods” in 2019, the actor’s real life looks quite different. Unlike his on-screen counterpart, Estes does not appear to be married or in a relationship.

Abigail Hawk – Bryan Spies

Hawk, who plays Detective Abigail Baker on “Blue Bloods,” has been married to Bryan Spies since 2009. In 2023, she marked their 14th anniversary with a heartfelt tribute on social media, calling him her “lighthouse” and celebrating the life they have built together.

Donnie Wahlberg – Jenny McCarthy

Wahlberg has been married to Jenny McCarthy since 2014. The couple has kept their relationship strong all these years by prioritizing each other, with McCarthy sharing in 2025 that they make a point to keep dating even after more than a decade of marriage.

Bridget Moynahan – Andrew Frankel

Moynahan has been married to businessman Andrew Frankel since 2015. The couple surprised their guests with a wedding at Wölffer Estate Vineyards in New York, where the actress wowed in a custom J. Mendel gown and the perfect accessories.

Sami Gayle

Gayle practically grew up on the set of “Blue Bloods,” having joined the show at 14. While her character matured on screen, as of 2018, she did not appear to be married or in a relationship.

The actress joked that any potential partner would have to win over not just her family, but also the “Blue Bloods” cast, who had become like a second family to her.

Len Cariou – Heather Summerhayes

Cariou’s wife is Heather Summerhayes. She has supported him throughout his career, often joining him on location and handling the many challenges that come with life on the road.

Marisa Ramirez

Ramirez became a mother in 2016 when she welcomed her daughter, Violet Rae, with a former “Blue Bloods” crew member.

Although she shared her excitement about becoming a parent, the actress did not reveal any details about being in a relationship at the time following her marriage to and divorce from Nathan Lavezoli.

Vanessa Ray – Landon Beard

Ray is married to musician Landon Beard. The couple tied the knot in 2015, and in 2024, they expanded their family through adoption when they welcomed a baby boy named Isaac Ray Beard.

Robert Clohessy – Catherine Erhardt

Clohessy has been married to Catherine Erhardt for many years. The two met through a mutual connection when Clohessy needed a place to stay while working on a television series, and they tied the knot just months later.

The couple eventually settled back on the East Coast with their two sons, Byron and Myles, who have both followed in their father’s footsteps with careers in the entertainment industry.

While the cast of “Blue Bloods” shares a strong bond on screen, their real-life relationships are just as meaningful. From long-lasting marriages to growing families, these actors have built full lives beyond the set.